FRIDAY HR COMMS: Stay Off the Weed, People...
"PRETEND WE'RE HAVING AN ARGUMENT": The Glass Office Everybody Watches You Go Into (From "Billions")....

Merging In Heavy Traffic On Your Commute: A Guide

Rant time people - This topic will be emotional for many of you - Merging on your way to work.

There are rules. You're antisocial and a bit of a moron if you don't follow the rules. Merge

Let's do this:

  1. If traffic is moving, you don't necessary owe anyone the ability to merge if they're at a standstill.  If you're moving at anything above 10mph, you're doing a disservice to anyone behind you by stopping and letting someone merge that was completely stopped.  That's their problem and the problem of the traffic planners.
  2. That being said, if you're moving at 10 mph or below, the right merge activity is to allow one car in front of you before you proceed.  If everyone allows one car in, we'll get this thing done and everyone will be fine.
  3. If you're behind the person I let in, DO NOT THINK THAT I'M PREPARED TO LET YOU IN TOO. I'm not.  Don't be that guy.
  4. IF you're approaching the people trying to merge, a light flash is the right way to tell them you're a human being and you're going to let them in.  They've got two seconds to get going, or you should move.  They've gotta be alert.
  5. If someone allows you to merge from a standstill, THE CLUTCH MOVE IS TO ALWAYS GIVE THEM A WAVE WHERE THEY CAN SEE IT.  You know they didn't have to do it. They did.  Much respect as indicated by the wave.  PRO TIP:  Don't put a single finger up - it can be misunderstood.

Are we good? Can everyone chill the #### out and follow the rules?  

Cool.  I'll be attacking other important work-related guides in the future. Be sure to see this one on the rules for holding the elevator for others approaching.



A coworker recently had an experience trying to merge, and the other vehicle wouldn't let her in. (My coworker was trying to do merge similar to your #2 above.) The jerk in the vehicle who wouldn't let my coworker merge gave my coworker a middle-finger salute (out the window, no less, so it wouldn't be missed), and also happens to work on a different team in our large HR department. (Her vanity plate also made that pretty obvious.) The jerk then had a drive-of-shame as my coworker followed her the rest of the way to our office building. So yes, it's very important to be polite on your commute, especially when you're within a few miles of your office and could encounter coworkers.

TMT aba

Human Resources in Japan

Great inspiring Post, I really appreciated it. Thanks for sharing this informationCompensating Japanese Employees and Union Problems in Japan


HR in Japan

Nice Post. Thanks for sharing a valuable information Human Resources in Japan.

The comments to this entry are closed.